To a new Beginning and Beyond

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I'm here to

I'm here to meet girls 18 to 36 years old for serious relationship.

About me

Hello, name is CJ
An INFP-T
I've been told I may come off as aloof, but I have a very sarcastic personality—sometimes a bit too much.

Those pictures are about 6 months old. I'm not someone who likes to take pictures; I'm quite reserved. Those pictures were taken before I went to an event. If you'd like a recent picture of me, we can do a trade-off.

I’ve been single for five years now, and while that time has allowed me to grow and reflect, I am now ready to start a new chapter with the right person.

What I'm doing here?
I am seeking a serious relationship that could lead to marriage within a year or two of truly getting to know each other. I believe this is enough time to understand each other’s habits, values, and compatibility. Loyalty, kindness, patience, open-mindedness, and the ability to communicate openly are qualities I deeply value. Communication is essential to me, as unspoken expectations often lead to disappointment. I also believe that embracing and learning about each other’s cultures can enrich our bond and deepen our connection.

As an orphan, I deeply understand how the absence of parents can shape one’s life. This experience has strengthened my commitment to being the best parent I can be to my future children, offering them the love and guidance I once yearned for. I hope my future partner shares this dedication to creating a nurturing and supportive family. I envision my wife as a loving mother and supportive partner. Ideally, I would love for her to be a stay-at-home mom, creating a stable and loving environment for our family. However, I fully respect her choice to work outside the home or focus solely on raising our children. My remote work allows me to be an active and present father, balancing my responsibilities to our children and our relationship, ensuring our family thrives in love and connection.

Without parents of my own to care for, my partner won’t face the pressures often associated with being a daughter-in-law. In turn, I will wholeheartedly embrace her family, culture, and traditions. I am open to relocating to her home country and learning her language, as I believe mutual understanding and respect are vital to building a lasting partnership. This way, she won’t have to be far from her family.

Finally, my dream is to settle in the countryside, where we can enjoy a peaceful life with enough land to grow fruit trees, vegetables, and raise a few chickens (for eggs and, of course, chicken manure—it’s great for the garden, haha!).

Just want to put this out there, props to you ladyboys for looking good, but not interested. haha

BTW, I'm not Chinese, Japanese or Korean.

About you

I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone who shares similar vision for the future—building a stable, loving partnership and eventually starting a family.

What matters most to me is character and shared values. I’d love to meet someone who leads a modest, balanced lifestyle, prioritizing meaningful moments over material things. If you enjoy weekends spent in peace rather than constant parties, avoid smoking, drugs, or excessive drinking, and value quality time over excessive social media use, we might have a lot in common.

While I respect everyone’s journey, I’m looking for a partner who doesn’t have children, as I feel it’s best for us to build our own story together from the beginning.

Clear communication is very important to me—talking things through when something’s on your mind is key to a strong relationship. I also value mutual respect and understanding, especially when navigating cultural differences. Embracing and learning from each other’s backgrounds, including our languages, would be such a rewarding part of our journey together.

If this resonates with you, I’d love to get to know you better and see where this path might lead!

After reading if you're interested in me, but don't want to start a conversation first, simply click the 'Like' or 'Heart' button. If I’m interested in you as well, I’ll message you.


P.S - VideoChat is a MUST so don't bother if you're unwilling.

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